If you have ever wondered why some women have wealth, abundance, and others seem to struggle to achieve everything and anything they want in life, it is actually very simple.

It is not that God favors them more or because of their beauty and appearance. It comes down to one thing. Their self-concept, meaning they have a true, subconsciously ingrained belief that they are the kind of woman who has wealth, abundance and many opportunities. Their identity is a wealthy woman.

Their brains are literally wired to believe this is true. Whether knowingly or unknowingly they followed the law of assumption which states that what you believe to be true about you and the world around you will become your reality.

Whether knowingly or unknowingly they followed the law of assumption which states that what you believe to be true about you and the world around you will become your reality.

Maybe as a little girl they dreamed of being rich and acted this belief out so many times that it became part of their identity. Or perhaps they came from wealth and it is the only experience they have of life. Or maybe something happened in their life and they made the decision that it won’t ever happen again, and made the mental shift which led to their personal abundance.

It really doesn’t matter, what matters is, you can do the same thing. You can decide today to shift your identity to that of a wealthy, successful, “lucky” woman, who things always works out for, no matter what!

Steps to shift

Shifting your identity from someone who struggles financially to someone who thrives with abundance involves both internal transformation and external action. Here’s a step-by-step guide to align your mindset and behaviors with the identity of a wealthy successful, “lucky” woman:

1. Reprogram Your Mindset for Abundance

  • Adopt an Abundant Belief System:
    Identify beliefs that keep you stuck in scarcity, like “I’ll never have enough” or “Making money is hard.” Replace them with affirmations that reflect abundance:
    • “I am worthy of wealth and abundance flows to me effortlessly.”
    • “There is always more than enough for me and those I care about.”
  • Use repetition, especially during subconscious programming moments like before sleep or after waking.
  • Gratitude Practice:
    Each day, write down or think about 3-5 things you’re grateful for. Gratitude shifts your focus to what you have, attracting more of it into your life.

2. Redefine Your Identity

  • Ask yourself: What does a wealthy woman believe, think, and do?
    Visualize her: How does she carry herself? How does she spend her time? What are her priorities? Begin embodying these qualities today, even in small ways.
  • Create a mantra like:
    • “I am a wealthy woman who manages money with confidence and attracts opportunities with ease.”

3. Change Your Relationship with Money

  • Track Your Money with Love:
    Start paying attention to your money by tracking your income and expenses. Doing this without judgment shows the universe that you respect and value money.
  • Treat Money Like a Partner:
    Speak positively about money, just as you would to a trusted friend.
    Example: Instead of “I never have enough,” say, “I’m excited to attract new opportunities for wealth.”

4. Visualize Your Wealthy Future

  • Spend 5-10 minutes each day visualizing your life as a wealthy woman:
    • See yourself paying bills with ease, giving generously, or investing in your dreams.
  • Make it vivid: Include sights, sounds, and feelings. The more real it feels, the more your subconscious works to create it.

5. Surround Yourself with Abundance

  • Elevate Your Environment:
    Surround yourself with things that feel abundant, even if they’re small (a luxurious candle, fresh flowers).
  • Connect with Abundance-Minded People:
    Join communities, follow mentors, or engage with content that inspires financial growth and a wealthy mindset.

6. Take Empowered Action

  • Create Wealth Habits:
    • Save even small amounts regularly to build the habit of abundance.
    • Invest in personal growth or skills that can increase your earning potential.
  • Celebrate Every Win:
    Whether it’s earning $10 more than expected or paying a bill, recognize it as proof of your growing abundance.

7. Shift Your Energy Around Wealth

  • Let Go of Scarcity Energy:
    Forgive yourself for past financial mistakes and let go of guilt or shame around money.
  • Practice Generosity:
    Give, even in small ways. This creates a sense of “I have enough to share,” reinforcing abundance.

8. Build a Positive Money Narrative

  • Rewrite your story:
    • Old Story: “I’m always struggling.”
    • New Story: “I am transforming into a woman who attracts and multiplies wealth with ease.”
  • Write this new story and read it daily.

9. Act As If You’re Already Wealthy

  • When making decisions, ask, What would a wealthy woman do? For example:
    • A wealthy woman doesn’t panic about money; she problem-solves.
    • She invests in herself because she knows it leads to growth.

10. Be Patient and Persistent

  • Shifting identity is a process. Celebrate progress and stay committed to embodying the mindset, habits, and actions of your wealthy self.

By aligning your thoughts, emotions, and actions with the identity of a wealthy woman, you will naturally attract the opportunities, relationships, and habits that create a life of financial ease and abundance.